I have never questioned how much the kid loves me. I am certain he does.
Sometimes he tells me that he loves me more than I do him (that's not true by the way).
They say love makes you do crazy things. Things you've never done before. Things you thought you'll never do.
Last weekend was a step forward in our relationship.
Something we've never done in the last eight months we've been together.
He broke a promise that we agreed he'll never do.
He changed for me.
For us.
For the first time.
He let me in.
I'll never question how much he loves me.
Never ever.
Do not mistake willingness on the sexual paradigm for emotional loyalty. This is neither to discredit your love for one another, simply a cautious reminder. That what one does in the throes of the deed are often, in passion; beyond what they are or how they are.
ReplyDeleteThe relationship has grown, yes. But him allowing you that step in is not the proof of it. They, love and that act, are non sequitur.
:)
giving someone's self in whole means he/she loves you very much. he/she is ready for you.
ReplyDeletefor some it's just a lustful play but for others it's divine and holy. :)
Hay Engel, I know how much this means to you.
ReplyDeleteYou among us know your lover the most, you would be the one who would be able to understand what it meant to him.
Wala na.... he took the path of no return. We all know where it leads... =)
Kane
KKLK!!!
ReplyDeleteIkaw, kelan mo papatunayan sa kanya? Haha
how much? hmmm...
ReplyDeleteis love really measurable? can we really quantify it?
In this case, promises are made to be broken. Now that it's broken, do you want it back to it's pristine state, or regret the fact that he let you in? Malabo...
ReplyDeleteit really feels good to love and be loved... :)
ReplyDeletehappy for you friend ;)
ReplyDeletehappy for you too! iba talaga ang ang pers taym. parang balik high school ulit. hehehe..
ReplyDeletewow. big leap. enjoy the long road ahread - together! =)
ReplyDeleteaaaawwwww. kiliiiig =)
ReplyDeleteay, ganda teh.
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@ red the mod:
ReplyDeleteInter-personal love has matured if it involves reciprocity. Reciprocity happens through the lovers’ willingness to reveal and communicate their ‘inner worlds’.
In this sense, I see sex as a special form of communication that SHOULD only transpire between lovers, since its 'message' is precisely its 'sender' - the entirety of the lover’s being.
However, this communication can only happen when there is trust, which is formed through experience - the moments shared together.
Thus, sex follows mature love. To claim that they are 'non-sequitur' is myopic.
This can also be explained in terms of the freedom of the will as guided by the intellect. In this context, sex is great since it involves both the actions of the intellect and of the will.
And the proper way to feel after sex is perfection, because both lovers KNOW that they WANT it.
- KID -
@ red the mod:
ReplyDeleteInter-personal love has matured if it involves reciprocity. Reciprocity happens through the lovers’ willingness to reveal and communicate their ‘inner worlds’.
In this sense, I see sex as a special form of communication that SHOULD only transpire between lovers, since its 'message' is precisely its 'sender' - the entirety of the lover’s being.
However, this communication can only happen when there is trust, which is formed through experience - the moments shared together.
Thus, sex follows mature love. To claim that they are 'non-sequitur' is myopic.
This can also be explained in terms of the freedom of the will as guided by the intellect. In this context, sex is great since it involves both the actions of the intellect and of the will.
And the proper way to feel after sex is perfection, because you KNOW you WANT it.
dont be afraid to fall in love. ako . I will love again thoug my heart is breaking =)
ReplyDeletethanks for sharing